My mom is so strict about facebook but pushes me on other things.?

She's so indecisive. She pushes boys on me and wants me to have a boyfriend etc. I'm 14. I want a facebook not because everyone else has one but because I want to keep in touch. I finally got a phone and am very thankful for it. But my mom finally agreed to let me have a a facebook on the condidtions she can view it all the time, one bad thing anyone says even gossip I have to delete them as a friend, I cannot upload pictures, can't use my real full name, and have to ask her before I add anyone. What is the point of having a facebook if she restricts it so much I can't do what I want to which is the only reason I want one. To send pics to my friends and chat with them without sumthing slipping out which is what we talk about sometimes. I have an email but don't use sum of my friends live out of state. This sucks I want to be grateful but don't think I'm going to get one because I don't want to have all the restrictions and be made fun of for them.